“13 Reasons Why” You Should Focus on Yourself Instead

Originally posted on Twitter on the 19th of July.

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We live in a world highly saturated with selfish people, people who only need you in their lives because you are beneficial to them. Let us stop trying to change people or forcing them to care, rather focus on your own health, heart and mind. Some people will only ever holla at you when all they need is your help meanwhile they couldn’t avail themselves when you needed their help.

How can you possibly expect anyone to support you if you don’t believe in your own craft? Forget the people and focus on why you started and where you are planning on going. Keep cheering yourself on and the rest of the world will gradually climb abroad when they see how much it matters to you. Social media will hold you back if you are constantly trying to keep up with what’s hip and happening. How will you ever figure out what you like and vibe with if you are a follower of all things?

Always remember how important it is for you to love yourself hence you are more aware of your wants and needs. If you choose to love yourself and focus on yourself, you will realize that everything falls into place – you will eventually stop chasing people, helping those who don’t even want to help themselves and your growth will happen much quicker. Forget everything else because it will only exhaust your soul and just focus on yourself.


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